krissybelle:

Eros
a passionate physical and emotional love based on aesthetic enjoyment; stereotype of romantic love

Ludus
a love that is played as a game or sport; conquest; may have multiple partners at once

Storge
an affectionate love that slowly develops from friendship, based on similarity

Pragma 
love that is driven by the head, not the heart

Mania
obsessive love; experience great emotional highs and lows; very possessive and often jealous lovers

Agape
selfless altruistic love; spiritual;

(via krissybelle)

I dated this guy lets call him J, for almost 3 years. He broke up with me last fall but even a week after we still kept in contact and he wanted me back and I really do love him and i know he loves me. Hes going to SAE in Nashville for Audio engineering and he SAYS thats the only reason he broke up with me is because “long distance relationships dont work” cant say i dont agree with that. He is my best friend and the few times ive seen him since the move we still hook up. I am single thou. and so is he. 

He wants me to move to Nashville and stay w/ him and his brother in an apartment in town. I could find a good EMT job possibly, no doubt. But at the same time its tricky cuz we really aren’t together. Maybe moving to Tampa where my dad is would be better and I can continue on my gaining of Independence. I’ve gotten alot of that since we spilt. and honestly there were alot of times in our relationship where he straight up treated me like CRAP……and in my opinion he was pretty controlling but coyly. He has changed alot I can forsure say that. Being in school out on his own but hes still depending on mommy and daddy to pay for things until they get hired at a studio where they plan on opening their own record label. I’m afraid of losing him but at the same time im young, im 21. 

I dont know what to do. Go with the man I love, Go see what else is out there maybe date, move to tampa, move to nashville……..I dont know…. I just need opinions….

sorry this is so long this has just really been on my mind and stressing me out and i thought i would turn to the people I’ve grown to love my followers. So help a nig out…what do u think i should do.